Nothing compares to the intoxicating feeling of relaxing in a partner’s arms. The warmth and safety of skin-on-skin contact, and the unspoken anticipation of what – or who – comes next. Now, how about combining that feeling with sex?
Every so often, a new sex tip enters the chat and completely dominates culture from TikTok to our favorite dating shows. The Speedbump sex position went viral after lovers discovered it could spice up their sex lives – without the need for acrobatic-level flexibility.
In this guide, certified sex educator, Javay Frye-Nekrasova, walks you through everything you need to know before exploring this position.
How to do the Speedbump sex position
The Speedbump sex position is a modified version of Doggy Style, with even more comfort – for the receiver, at least! Essentially, it’s one of the most popular sex positions of any pillow princess.
To get in position, have the receiver lie face down on the bed, on their stomach. They can keep their legs open or slightly apart, depending on comfort – you can adjust later if needed. Now, arch your back slightly and lift your hips – that’s your Speedbump. For added comfort, add a pillow or sex wedge underneath your pelvis to keep those hips raised.
Next, it’s time for the giver to get in position: Simply position your knees outside your lover’s legs and lower yourself to slip inside them from behind. Thrust and enjoy.